I am alive

Isnt it great?

To be alive?

I notice that many like to put a lot of attention to learn from the past, be thankful for what you have and so on.

What if we had everything that we ever needed to have here now?

What would life be like then?

Fullfilment maybe?

Then some might argue for, but what about the things I want?
And then you would know, they wouldnt have everything they need, since having everything then you dont need or want anything.

It is the about how to make decisions about life and what you do in your life, the things you might be interested to expereince, to do and to go further on the steps in the cycle of life.

Like the lion king movie from Disney, shows how life continue to go on even as you are gone. Then if we follow the steps of Tolkien that what is next is a path beyound, there is no death, it is a neverending path to the next step.

One thing we can be absolutly sure of, is dying, we will die one day, what is next then is about those that being there will find out. What happens though people will be afraid of an event that has not happen yet, and then they hesitate, they be cautious, freeze.

But the same pattern operates in the world in anything we do, we make a decision to do something and then we draw forth information from the past and then we decide to what action is to be.

We make decisions from past events, past history and are making a decision about the future that have not happen yet, and we then creates all those emotions before anything has happen yet...isnt that strange?

It called the soapbubble theory.

It will burst open if we take a chance.

Then it will expose us, the one we are.
Then people will judge you and make funny faces and you will feel bad and that is what many are afriad of.

To be exposed.

You are born naked, until a age your mostly doing nothing, you eat, scream and shit your pants.

Then you explore the things around you.

Then as many notice life changes, people scare you, you get burned and you hide yourself beyound walls, so many say "you are seeing trough me" which often means you see the actual me.

I know many in the NLP field is satisfied with teaching the NLP models that they was taught by someone else.

I am not, I also extended in the things I do to continue search since there isnt as I noted one answer out there, there is many. People just know what they know and some are more skilled and some are more knowledgable and some combine different elements to what is there.

Words are attached to concepts, a word means a lot of links in your mind, the knowledge of many years are there for you in any given moment, but as many things we block things out, we are limited to the life we learned to have.

Then some try to fix that by finding problems and fix them, again and again and as a plummer know, you dont fix a leak by doing a quick fix, you change the pipes.

But the metapohur is missleading, the point here is, the words changes how we percive what is written.
If the problem isn´t leaking anymore there is no need of pipes to be replaced.

Human brains works differently than physical obejcts around us.
It will interact however in the brain with those objects, and many will also think this is reality.
And it is.

Our mind is the place where everything takes place, then we have a way of thinking and being in the world which allow us to interact with the outside using the stored knowledge in the brain.

You might think, so what?

Well let say your having a bad day, is it really a bad day or is it in your body and head?

Some play golf, and then they hit a bad shot, then they say "oh no, my whole day is ruined".

Everything happens fast, it just happens since our minds works by habit and when the patterns that are displayed runs from the hardware that stores them then it is often to late.
To change, and people want the change.

Some I seen going to theraphy for 17 years and not been better is beacuse the therapists never learned to work with people directly, they learned to work with the method and system applied to people not with people first then apply the methodology.

This is also why I was intruged by the mythoself model after I had been exposed to Joseph Riggios work by invitation.
That model and modelling I did made it able for me to refine and update a lot of knowledge I had gained before.

It also made me able to do things much differently than I did before.

What if things are perfect already?

No need to change, no need to do something about anything since you be working from a whole standpoint of doing you?

Bringing the future to now is about making sure the point from you live your life comes from the most enriching expereince you can have in your life as now.

If we use that as a guideline, that there is whole form in the future, about the things we want to achive, be, or live after?
Then we make the changes now, since if that is to be true the future, then this has to be so in the now to make it so in the future even though it is happening now?

Complexed, confusing?

So the orientation is based on how we think about time and how we make decisions.

If time dosnt exist and everything happens now then anything we do has already happen, right?

But it dosnt seem so since when we look out the window we see things move around.

But as a concept about thinking and doing things it can be useful for us.

If we however think about the future being true, it has already happen, people will change instantly how they percive the event, and how it feels for them this moment, since that access creates one option only.

We just then in that moment just know it is so, it is that knowing that creates the platform of a well formed foundation.
Then as one option, we can decide to orient ourselves to that point of attention, that allow us to be in the experience first, outwards, direction of perception that is then used to make a decision about the things we are doing now with the events that is happening around you called life.

So the dog shits on the floor, the baby cries, the man hits his children, depending on how we decided to orient ourselves then we decide then and now how to respond to those events based on what we set up the platform to be.

Most however live life depending on how the wind blows in that moment they change direction often based on fear, or what someone else says.

To live life as it was meant to be lived you got to decide how that life is to be lived.

I dont say it is easy or not hard since at times it will be a challenge.

You will be questioned and people would want to stir you to another direction since they have a will of their own and you still have to stand firm with that decision you made.

In life people come by and hear that you are doing something new, then they start to say, well have you really thought this trough etc?

They do so by having good intentions but they are giving you there own intention, not yours since they based what they say on what they would do or not do themselves.

They not talking about you, they talk about themselves.

Then we come down to how we define reality and there is two basic ways we do so, either by letting the outside determine the inside or the inside determine the outside.

The combinations from that are massive in its own.

Some people are so on edge by listen to others they change opinions as soon someone new say something different, then there is those that rarely if ever would change their opinions in anything what someone else says.

Then there is those that take that into a selfinducing trance called fanatism where the outside confirms an inside held view even if it isnt in any regard acurate to what goes on.
That type of stuff is noted in NLP as metaprograms since that allows people to build massive generalizations based on trough time events.

However, if we view them how people define reality it is much esasier to work with that typ of forms people have as platform.

Metaprograms are just the surface structure and shows the patterns that the person is orienting itself around in regard to the form of how they know this to be and it is bound by context.

Reality however is unbound by context since the same form will be applied everwhere. It is just so.

The world is so beacuse it is organized in that form.

Then the orientation and the attention of that forms shows the expression in the perceptual model of the world, the mental map people act from.

NLP maps the perceptual model or map but not the form it springs from.

For me, I am going down to do another training using the skill set I developed, the experiecne I have and to deliver something I came from in my life, being me.

Alive

/Robert