Roadmap

I was traveling down the street. I knew my way.
It felt shorter this time since it was the second time I went there.

I always loved the expereince of going down the second time or such since the distance seemed shorter for every time you traveled the road.

I did read about one guy in New York who did take as a sport to go a new route each day to work.
He said that he saw areas he never knew existed there in the town.

The shift in our view of distance and time are what is facinating for me.

The new roadmap opens up the brain for new pathways to be built since our brain has to adapt to the new surrondings.
That allows us to grow new pathways but also to help us learn faster.
When we learn x route and we done it a long time we go into autopilot and just let our attention be in the drive. Then we think about anything else.

Thats a cool feature however it also tends to kill a few people since it is very easy to do a mistake in that state.

Normally we just drive to home or work or to another adress since we forgot we did move to a new home.
So we wake up go "oh! missed that turn".
This happens since our attention is on an earlier route learned and automated.
Richard Bandler often talks about such stuff since it also teaches about the basic ways to automate new learnings, it elicit the wanted state of learning and autoroute.
It is also a way of understanding how neural pathways happens.

I visited my sister yesterday.
She had some issues with their oldest son. He been found shoplifting and denial the whole thing.
It actually in the end came down to, "I am afraid of doing mistakes in my rising of my kids."
The shortcomings of how people act are often very basic in their nature.

We need in other words better roadmaps for ourselves and also for mankind.

So I decided to educate my sister in what I do, the newest stuff I come up with.

Build roadmaps and enjoy.

/Robert
Paradoxical ladders.

Making it

The last breath, the sudden last moment just before you plung deep into the ocean diving for a record or just pure pleasure or even as a survival in the community as those pearlfishers knows about.

I remember some moments really well, one was the idea that some in NLP did when someone said something negative that they reframed that in a postive fashion, so if someone said, I dont want this, they reframed into, I want this.

Then some didnt do that, they just went with what the client said.

I think when you read about big breaktroughs, that it is something someone did that was extraordinary at the time. Often we create heros that did some big feat, dodge bullits in matrix or was it even that he didnt needed to?

So, we think, we use pictures in our mind, voices in our head and feelings to guide us in our life, we also use smell and taste and other senses even though they are not as primary some say, and then some say otherwise. Its confusing that so many say different things.

I just wanted some easy and clear explained way to feel good, to think better and to have a life where it was great.
Is that to much to ask for?

I noticed Tony Robbins you know the guy with the motivation and the book Unlimited power?
When I entered his workshop back in 1994 he told one big lie. It was clear for me, it wasnt the truth. That NLP wasnt the cuttin edge.

Still even now, when I dont do NLP for me NLP is still the edge and cuts really well.
Its just the use of NLP are in the domain of the five senses.

To go to the neurological centres where we expereince things, where things just are, we just are.

When you had times where things flowed, and you stopped, looked around and sensed, this moment is impossible to explain, it just has to be expereinced and you knew in that moment it was special.

Did you know some people actually live such moments each and every day?

I tried to fix a friends computer, everything that could go wrong somehow did, in the end though, it worked and function as it should.
For me what was present was, it is going to work and everything I did was aimed for that to work. It seems if you build enough motivation you succeed.

But, motivation requires filling as any car needs unless you have downhill all the way.

So, we think, ever had such moments when you was thinking about one thing, trying to solve or thinking about it to find some idea why?
Then you shifted from that and then noticed you was off track and then tried again to get back..
You then did that back and forth until you gave up or tried to solve it differently.

Some try to anchor good feelings, then to fire them anchors off when they feel bad.
To get back into the good feelings again.

But what if we could do things differently.

What if we could just stop the thinking and just expereince moments when time stops.
It is such moments when life trancends and you just know this is it.

I had such a moment a few days ago.

It as for me the end of a long search, a step into the direction I wanted to go, to get people to be able to pull simple things off like, feeling good, change their thinking and have a great life. is it to much to ask for really?

I am going to train my body the following week.
I did eat some saturday candy today and then I am looking forward to start the spring training.

This dosnt require motivation or lies, it just require to be in those moments you have when time stops, where you just have this expereince where your just know things and life forever never be the same again. It is such moments many athlets want to have, they enter the zone, they have flow, and then they have such a moment when they say, that pays for all training.

For many NLP:ers that is impossible or even hard to get back to, for me, it just require a few moments and asking a few questions and me are there back into the expereince.

Then there is this with making decisions, do I want this excellence state or that one?
Its a choice but from places where life gives the best you ever had. It trancends your expereince, it is those moments people could give anything for it.

Then it is good fortune that there now is such a system that will achive such feats.

I am sitting here, listening to lambretta, writing this, and boy do I have such a moment!

A friend of mine goes icescating on long winded rivers.
He does so by the sheer pleasure of the ice, black, and the sound and the wind and the sun and he has an enjoyable time, it also trancends his expereince of life, him and what is in those moments isnt for me to say but I can make a guess.

Some go fishing, not for the fishing but for the time to spend contemplating about life, what goes on, what value this is, what is the meaning of all and so on.

The modelling done by me, isnt as done by normal standards, it contains the loops that is needed to track two different things at the same time. One thing Richard Bandler can do really well and also a few others.

I noticed that Robert Dilts in his book modeling with NLP used first and second position. I often wonder where he got those ideas from. It is clear to me that you can achive a full expereince and truly expereince something and doing that also at the same time analyze what is going on.

I also when people think about things notice the attention goes in a location and stays the same for a long time. It is also interesting how that attention can be focused on what truly works and then, what happens to our thinking then?
It is as free to wonder off thinking, comparing and continue to do what has been done such long time.

Then how do we combine and solve the learned thinking and the expereince with the moments that truly people seek?

People seek mystery, the unknown, to spark our sense of adventure, to get some rush and to get us out of our habitual life.

But to go there, to the unknown fully, isnt easy, we think, we know what we have, and what do we get?

Many systems arise to help us, television adds DR Phil, Oprah and others who want to help us, guide us and show us a larger world.
I watch those shows, and I guess many like them, they are entertaining, looks good, sells and are considered value since they shows that people can move beyound what was previously considered possible.

That is good.

Then some says, we cant solve the issue that people think, that they fall into bad habits, that they feel bad and cant change that.

It takes long, it is hopeless it havent been done before.

I admire for example Richard bandler, not for is strange behaviours, his evasive nature, his attitude or such things.

I admire him for creating the thing called NLP with John Grinder so I can sit here, to write this even if its 30 years later.
In the same manner I also admire John grinder.

In many ways I also admire many others.

A friend of mine who been there for me over the years when I was sick.
He is truly worthy of my admire and respect.
Tor Kangas you really are a true friend.

Now my life changes, it takes another direction.

I am about to launch a system, a model which achives and solves without me intended to do produce such things has bad habits, thinking that dosnt serve you and how your are feeling.

It does so fast, simple and elegant.

The steps requires little training to do and expereince before the background is covered and the knowledge secured in a way that allows people to free their minds and go create willingly wonders that others wants to enjoy.

So, it starts, a new phase in my life and it is so simple, natural and so destined to be.

I truly enjoy life.

/Robert
www.riggiomodel.biz